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Hi everyone. I'm an intersex female from the USA living in Exeter, Devon, in the UK. As circumstances go, though, I am kind-of inbetween here and Olympia, Washington (USA). Even though I am intersex, for most of your intents and purposes of understanding I am M-to-F trans- I'll explain the details of what intersex is if asked. My main athletic interest and pasttime outside education or work is rowing. Just very recently I won a major upper-division race in my first regatta in England, so that's a big personal accomplishment for me right now. Something else is that I plan to have SRS surgery relatively soon in the future.

For the record, though, I am generally a really loving person. I don't think it's very becoming to spill all your beans all at once in a profile, though. I can say I would rather be admired and remembered for who I am as opposed to what I am or how I look or present myself. For example, I would rather hear a compliment about me for something I said or did then "oh wow you're HOT Liz". I'd rather be liked by people for sincere reasons, I think it's best to say. After all, I wear specs that make me look something like a surgeon- can you imagine someone calling me hot straight off?

You can find me on YouTube at username ActuallyBasically.

IF I DID, IN-FACT think that there was someone out there in this world for me, this is what he might need to know (but honestly I fear this person does not even exist):

I could say that my mating concept is more-or-less 'complicated brainy girl for hero savior' but honestly I'm not here expecting love; I've not had much good luck in that department. If it happens, then that's super, and I know there are lots of great guys around on this site at least. Like I said before, I'd rather be sincerely liked, and not have someone simply say "I like you but I am not ready for xyz with you, and could only have a one night stand or fling". If you sincerely go for someone, that will be that. Right?

Whomever I end up with, IF I don't end up being a lonely spinster, will be a "Mr.-Happy-Go-Lucky"- he'll be a popular man and most people will really like him. This would be to naturally offset my sometimes-tempestuous personality and to balance me out.

Wanted: Less griping about people on the site, and more topic discussion
posted by Rower81 on 2008-11-23I'm just writing to express my frustrations from good, relevant topics like my last one about serial monogamy and transgender people being bumped from the main screen because someone wants to complain yet again about why guys or girls will not write...view complete post | view all Rower81's posts